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What Is Ethic???
Ethics is something where and how the main branch of philosophy is assessed or quality becomes the study of standards and moral judgment. Ethics of analysis and application of the concepts of right, wrong, good, bad, and responsible.
1. Should the conversation always be in goodness.
Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says which means, "There is no good in most of their whisperings except for the whisperings of those who enjoin (alms) to give alms or to do ma'ruf, or to make peace among men." (Qur'an Surah An-Nisa verse 114)
2. Let a person speak in an audible voice, not too loud nor too low.
The phrase is clear and understandable to everyone and not made or forced to force.
3. Do not talk about something that is not useful to you.
The hadith of the Prophet Rasulullah Sallallaahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam states, "Including one's goodness is to leave what is useless to him." (Hadith of Ahmad and Ibnu Majah and allegedly by Al-Albani).
4. Do not talk about everything you hear.
Abu Hurairah Radhiallahu 'anhu in his hadith Rasulullah Sallallaahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam said, "Suffice it to be a sin for a person, when he speaks of all that he has heard." (Hadith Muslim History)
5. Avoid debate and argue with each other.
Even if you are on the right side and away from words that are lying even joking. The Prophet Rasulullah Sallallaahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam said,
"I am the guarantor of a palace in the garden of heaven for anyone who avoids contention even though he is right, and (the guarantor) of the palace in the midst of heaven for anyone who leaves a lie even jokingly". (Hadith History Abu Dawud and assessed Hasan by Al-Albani).
6. Relax in speaking and not rushing.
Aisha Radhiallahu'anhu has said, "Verily the Prophet Rasulullah Sallallaahu' Alaihi Wa Sallam when talking about a conversation, if anyone counts it, undoubtedly he can count (words) he". (Muttafa 'alaih).
7. Avoid dirty words (vile).
Rasulullah Sallallaahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam said, "A believer is not a detractor or a condemnation or a vicious conversation." (Hadith History Al-Bukhari in Al-Adab Al-Mufrad, and validated by Al-Albani).
8. Avoiding the attitude of self-imposed and talkative in talking.
In the hadith Jabir Radhiallahu 'anhu mentioned, "And indeed the man I most hate and the farthest from me on the Day of Judgment will be the one who speaks, the pretender and the mutafaihiqun."
The Companions asked, "O Messenger of Allah, what is mutafaihiqun?"
The Prophet Rasulullah Sallallaahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam replied,
"The arrogant ones." (Hadith History At-Tirmidhi, assessed hasan by Al-Albani).
9. Avoiding deeds of ghibah (gossiping) and pitting the sheep.
Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says which means, "And do not part of you to the other half." (Qur'an Surah Al-Hujurat verse 12).
10. Listen to other people's conversations well and not cut them.
Do not reveal that you know what he is talking about, do not take his opinion or belie him.
11. Do not monopolize in speaking.
But give others the opportunity to speak.
12. Avoid harsh words, loud words and hurtful feelings.
Do not seek to find fault with other people's conversations and errors, because it can invite hatred, hostility and conflict.
13. Avoiding mockery, mocking fun and looking down on people who speak.
Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says which means, "O those who believe, let not a people mock fun of other people, (because) may be they (who mocked) better than them (who mock fun), and not also Women (mocking) other female women, (because) may be female (mocked) women better than women (who mock fun). " (Qur'an Surah Al-Hujurat verse 11)
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